15 Helpful Tips to Young Black Women

15 Helpful Tips to Young Black Women

As I grow older and continue to develop in my Womanhood there are many things I've learned along the way. Coming from different backgrounds you learn different things as women. Even though I had many different women influences including my loving Mother growing up, there is still a diverse stream of knowledge to help in a young woman's development. Hopefully some of these will help the younger Black Queens in our society. These are in no particular order but each have extreme value.

1. Repair and Maintain good credit
2. Learn to let "Friends" go
3. Travel frequently but with a purpose
4. Save, Save, Save
5. Maintain a healthy body and self-care regime
6. Continiously seek Knowledge
7. Learn to be Submissive
8. Partying is fun, but making money for the event is even better!
9. Embrace Spirituality
10. Mind your business
11. Don't provide people with more information than needed
12. Learn to cook if you don't know how
13. Learn to shoot a gun/protect yourself
14. Invest in your future
15. Become your own Boss!

These are just a few important tips, and not on an elaborated level. I will go into more depth on these tips later.


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The "Next Level"

So you're ready for the next level in life huh? Well there's a lot of things that will have to take place to go to that next level. Now let me say this, "It won't be easy!" See the first problem with going to the next level is that everybody won't understand the new person you are becoming, and that's okay, F*ck um, yes that's a little harsh but believe me This journey is harsh!

When trying to ascend to the next level your peers won't understand if they themselves have not began to elevate their minds. People don't understand greatness when they have only seen one level and and surrounded by people who are on that same level. In order to elevate and reach that next level one must encounter individuals who are striving for the same ascension. There aren't many of us but when you find them you will know.

Observing society and my peers you always see a negative undertone when someone is actually doing well in life, whether you say they don't deserve it or how did they do it we figure out any way to downplay their success. Those are the people to stay far away from.

Another important rule in going to the next level is to mind your business! What the next person has going on should never effect your journey in ascending. Focusing on your growth and development is key, and anyone that wants to be apart of your rising needs to understand the importance of this.

The "Next Level" is waiting for you to rid the stagnant people and stagnant thoughts. They will say you changed and you have, you Elevated! 

"Raising Consciousness"

"Raising Consciousness " sometimes as individuals we think we can handle everything that comes our way. There's no doubt that you can but sometimes you may need a little help. Yes, help...we were placed on this planet not for just us but as a spiritual universe collectively. We were placed here to help each other in any way possible. This world is bigger than you and once you elevate your mind to a certain level you Will also become aware of this.

In order to raise the spiritual enlightenment of our society as a whole everyone must come to terms with certain rules of consciousness. Helping someone will always mean you're also helping yourself, by placing positivity and love in the atmosphere you will always get it back. Many individuals are not being taught this, they are being taught to be selfish because of what society depicts as being independent. Being independent does not warrant selfishness, if you are ever in a position to help anyone you must always do so. Let your spirit guide you to always doing right and nothing of malicious intent.

Rise above society's expectations and live the life and mind as a King or Queen.

"The Perfect Relationship"

"The Perfect Relationship"


So we all search and search for this perfect relationship not knowing it doesn't exist. Surprise! We have this calculated list of what we expect in a partner, and just when you think you've found it you realize once again that this is not it. Truth is there is no perfect relationship and never will be.

We watch and glamourize every smiling face and think "oh they are so lucky" only to find that there is a flaw in the speculated relationship-financial problems, sexual problems, trust issues, abuse, lack of mutual intelligence, very few example to the many.

When will people learn that no one can tell you who or how to love. The fact is that no relationship is perfect, you just have to figure out who you're willing to go through he'll (oh did I say that) and back but still experience Nirvana. If you're searching for the perfect relationship, you'll search forever!

Sincerely-A Queen

A beautiful body and a beautiful face does not define you. I am a Queen enriched in melanin, embodied in the strength of 10 men. My mind is full of intelligence we all seek to find. My heart pure and fragile yet strong enough to fight any battle. Breaking barriers, setting standards, I rise above society's expectations. My mind is my secret weapon nothing of the flesh just of the soul. A beautiful body is sweet but what about her soul? Sincerely-A Queen