Divine Love ❤️

 Tired of love? Yes most of us are, tired of false hopes and promises made by people we think we love. Is it love or lust, it’s like you never know until it’s over between you two. Because how can it be love if you are now separated? People say that they would rather have loyalty than love, but isn’t loyalty a part of truly loving someone. Love is not just a word, it’s a action. An action of true divine guidance.  I believe true love never divides until one ascends to another place physically and spiritually one some people refer to as death…now in wedding vows it says specifically “until death do us part”…the ultimate goal in any relationship is to be joined forever in love under Gods divinity. That is a union guided by pure love. Yes there will be problems, but because you’re guided by the divine you will always overcome these hurdles and continue on your journey together. Ultimately you learn to not waste your time or soul on people that are not aligning with your path. The reason you’re tired of love is because you haven’t had the right love. Date and love with purpose and watch your dreams and desires unfold. Don’t be tired of love, but give true love…to give love will only guarantee love returned. 

Patience

 Patience 

That new house you want, that new car you want..don’t worry it’s yours. You claim it and it’s yours, now how are you going to get to that goal? Do you have the patience to get to that goal? See we all want things exactly when we want them, but are you truly ready for these specific things and I’m not just talking about the material things that I mentioned, I’m talking about any goal you wish to attain. Rather it be spiritual wisdom, physical health, mental health whatever your goal is it will require patience. You have to process also why this goal is important to you. Sometimes we want things that are not for our lives and rush forward without any meditation or logical reasoning, those things take patience. A patient heart and mind can only yield good results. Now in the heart of patience you must still be ambitious, patience is what will keep you from acting hastily and creating chaos. Sit still, write out your goals and patiently wait for the answers and guidance you seek to carry out your specific goal. Don’t be so quick to go from point A to Z that you skip over important lessons that account towards your goals. Be patient with yourself and non controllable hurdles whether it be people or things, you will reach your goals. It’s not a race but grace to destiny❤️

Have Mercy For Single Mothers

Too many times African single mothers are criticized or blamed for being a single parent, ridiculed on why they are a single parent..there are so many women who are misunderstood and taken advantage of. Before judging these women, know their story and then you still do not have the right to judge them. Give a helping hand, words of encouragement whatever you can to uplift our African women and then in to, you will uplift our African community~

DEAR BROWN GIRL

Dear Brown Girl, 

The Beauty of your skin dipped in earths sand, covered in the strength and Royalty of our Ancestors. Conquering anything, the radiance of your skin shines on all around you. You are everything one wants to be, you are a Queen...Beautiful African Queen 👑.|CB

LOVE.....who is ready to find love in 2018 if you haven't already?..The concept of love has evolved over the years or has it? Some still don't know what love truly is. The thing is that if you've never seen love or had an example of what love really is, how do you prepare to love someone else? Some may not know but true love takes lots of work, patience, trust, sacrifice, compromise so many elements that one has to be selfless to understand. Sometimes it will take someone showing you how to truly love.

Sadly in this generation there are many people who are not willing to work through anything and would rather take the easier route then to work on what they have. Society and media have carved a perception in many people that relationships are perfect and easy but not displaying what couples really have to go through and sacrifice to be as one. People have trended for years #relationshipgoals based merely off of a physical picture, vain reasons not knowing what the couple they admire truly have been through.

Think back to our parents/grandparents and the example of 50+ years of marriage. It's so much easier to be disloyal than to be loyal for most, so why not challenge yourself to actually try to love your partners better this year and be loyal. I limit my discussions on these topics because its such a vast and sensitive topic. So many people search and say that they are ready for love, but are you? Truly take a look at what it takes to love another person wholeheartedly.

ZODIAC WARS: Which Zodiac is the Best?

So which Zodiac is the best??

I'll let you answer that! Over the years I've developed a very keen quality which is being able to identify people with their signs within minutes sometimes seconds of meeting them. It's a very weird intuitive ability I've developed watching mannerisms and aura that tell me exactly what Astrological sign you fall under. Kinda creepy, I know! Most people are shocked and want to know more about themselves. Am I always right?....Well mostly, some signs have a few hidden traits that can throw you off. Now these qualities that I've noticed will be VERY controversial to most of you but again this is part of my own observations. But by all means please share your opinions! It's all fun, xoxo

Capricorn- So Capricorn...hmmm. They are a tricky set of characters. They appear really sweet and friendly which they are but don't try to change them. Very good with money not good with compromise. Adventure is not in their vocabulary, but money is!

Aquarius- The most introverted extrovert ever! They are very friendly but always on their terms. The most wittiest, romantic, mean person sign. How is this possible?  You'll never know, I promise

Pisces- A very compassionate sign willing to do anything for anyone. They can do no wrong or can they? Just don't cross them and you'll never have to know. Full of character and love all the time

Aries- Who are these people? They're so hidden. You'll never know an Aries right off because they're somewhere by themselves quiet. Their dark demeanor makes you think they are actually mean but they are actually funny people they just don't play games. Period, well except when they're being a big kid, oh so I guess they are actually fun loving....who'd guess?

Taurus-Yes it's true, you're stubborn!.. It's to the point that no one will believe it unless they actually experience it themselves. It's a bold true trait. Don't rush them, always feed them, and love them and they'll be a loving loyal teddy bear. Betray them, they'll never talk to you again. Always bring money and shiny gifts, they love luxury. They always return the gesture though, they love to shower people with gifts

Gemini- Can't trust 'em! LOL just kidding but really, yes they are fun and entertaining to be around but you'll never know who you're dealing with. Exciting right if you like that type of suspense or imbalance, it's all in perception lol

Cancer- I wrote this one last because they're so sensitive I have to watch what I say. Nah but seriously they are genuine friendly people, very selective in the company they keep because their emotions have to be understood. "Stuck up" no just selective, and again that's that perception thing again

Leo- Confident of course! People think because they're confident they're snobs but they are actually hilarious. Love to be seen and demands attention. Most dress well, they do they're the best but most work for that title...competitive much?

Virgo- The Weird one, always never fails! Full of life while they're head is full of problems, imaginary ones however. Loving, cuddly, bubbly, they live on another planet in their own little world but they do sometimes mingle with the earthlings. The hate drama and try to control and fix everything

Libra- Oh how sweet/reliable are Libra's as friends, lovers, pretty much everything but they're so friendly there has to be a different side! Well there is, they are the sneakiest of them all...shhh, its a secret!

Scorpio- They do what they want and don't care what you think. It's always their way or no way

Sagittarius- Life of the party! These people never seem bothered. No matter which one you meet they look like a party in a package. I don't think they judge anyone but they don't like compromise, stuck in their ways but ready to celebrate any and everything

Again these are all for fun, didn't want to dig to deep most are not ready for the truth 😊 xoxo

15 Helpful Tips to Young Black Women

15 Helpful Tips to Young Black Women

As I grow older and continue to develop in my Womanhood there are many things I've learned along the way. Coming from different backgrounds you learn different things as women. Even though I had many different women influences including my loving Mother growing up, there is still a diverse stream of knowledge to help in a young woman's development. Hopefully some of these will help the younger Black Queens in our society. These are in no particular order but each have extreme value.

1. Repair and Maintain good credit
2. Learn to let "Friends" go
3. Travel frequently but with a purpose
4. Save, Save, Save
5. Maintain a healthy body and self-care regime
6. Continiously seek Knowledge
7. Learn to be Submissive
8. Partying is fun, but making money for the event is even better!
9. Embrace Spirituality
10. Mind your business
11. Don't provide people with more information than needed
12. Learn to cook if you don't know how
13. Learn to shoot a gun/protect yourself
14. Invest in your future
15. Become your own Boss!

These are just a few important tips, and not on an elaborated level. I will go into more depth on these tips later.


Tell me what you want to hear/comment/like/share xoxo

The "Next Level"

So you're ready for the next level in life huh? Well there's a lot of things that will have to take place to go to that next level. Now let me say this, "It won't be easy!" See the first problem with going to the next level is that everybody won't understand the new person you are becoming, and that's okay, F*ck um, yes that's a little harsh but believe me This journey is harsh!

When trying to ascend to the next level your peers won't understand if they themselves have not began to elevate their minds. People don't understand greatness when they have only seen one level and and surrounded by people who are on that same level. In order to elevate and reach that next level one must encounter individuals who are striving for the same ascension. There aren't many of us but when you find them you will know.

Observing society and my peers you always see a negative undertone when someone is actually doing well in life, whether you say they don't deserve it or how did they do it we figure out any way to downplay their success. Those are the people to stay far away from.

Another important rule in going to the next level is to mind your business! What the next person has going on should never effect your journey in ascending. Focusing on your growth and development is key, and anyone that wants to be apart of your rising needs to understand the importance of this.

The "Next Level" is waiting for you to rid the stagnant people and stagnant thoughts. They will say you changed and you have, you Elevated! 

"Raising Consciousness"

"Raising Consciousness " sometimes as individuals we think we can handle everything that comes our way. There's no doubt that you can but sometimes you may need a little help. Yes, help...we were placed on this planet not for just us but as a spiritual universe collectively. We were placed here to help each other in any way possible. This world is bigger than you and once you elevate your mind to a certain level you Will also become aware of this.

In order to raise the spiritual enlightenment of our society as a whole everyone must come to terms with certain rules of consciousness. Helping someone will always mean you're also helping yourself, by placing positivity and love in the atmosphere you will always get it back. Many individuals are not being taught this, they are being taught to be selfish because of what society depicts as being independent. Being independent does not warrant selfishness, if you are ever in a position to help anyone you must always do so. Let your spirit guide you to always doing right and nothing of malicious intent.

Rise above society's expectations and live the life and mind as a King or Queen.

"The Perfect Relationship"

"The Perfect Relationship"


So we all search and search for this perfect relationship not knowing it doesn't exist. Surprise! We have this calculated list of what we expect in a partner, and just when you think you've found it you realize once again that this is not it. Truth is there is no perfect relationship and never will be.

We watch and glamourize every smiling face and think "oh they are so lucky" only to find that there is a flaw in the speculated relationship-financial problems, sexual problems, trust issues, abuse, lack of mutual intelligence, very few example to the many.

When will people learn that no one can tell you who or how to love. The fact is that no relationship is perfect, you just have to figure out who you're willing to go through he'll (oh did I say that) and back but still experience Nirvana. If you're searching for the perfect relationship, you'll search forever!

Sincerely-A Queen

A beautiful body and a beautiful face does not define you. I am a Queen enriched in melanin, embodied in the strength of 10 men. My mind is full of intelligence we all seek to find. My heart pure and fragile yet strong enough to fight any battle. Breaking barriers, setting standards, I rise above society's expectations. My mind is my secret weapon nothing of the flesh just of the soul. A beautiful body is sweet but what about her soul? Sincerely-A Queen